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Sunday, August 11, 2013
Sundays Obituary -- Meyrick
This is the obituary for my 3x-Great Grandmother Margaret Meyrick, Which appeared in the Boston newspaper in 1918.
It read
Meyrick--In Roslindale, Feb 19. Margaret , Widow of John Meyrick. Service from residece of her daugter, Mrs. Emily Bolton 335 Poplar St., Thursday 2. Relatives and friends invited.
What this obituary does not say is that she was the daughter of William and Elizabeth Lloyd or that she was the grandmother to five granddaughters or the older sister to four younger siblings!
Margaret died on 19 Feb 1918 following complications from a hernia surgery.
My link to Margaret:
Hillary born 1972 California
Sherri Bestor born 1945 Massachusetts
Virginia Stanley born 1924 Massachusetts
Alice Bolton born 1889 Massachusetts
Emily Meyrick born 1865 England
Margaret Lloyd Meyrick born 1848 Wales
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Surname Saturday -- Boisseau
Boisseau Ancestors
French
Origin: Boisseau is a metonymic occupational name for a corn merchant or
factor, one who measured grain. (Provided by
Ancestry.com)
My first Boisseau ancestors can be found in
Montreal, Canada in the late 1600’s.
There we find Pierre Boisseau. It
is believed Pierre was born in France in 1646.
In October 1670 Pierre married Anne Faubert, born 1649 in France. Anne was a Fille du Roi, or King’s Daughter,
which was the term given to all female orphans in France. Pierre and Anne had two sons. Pierre died in Montreal in 1699 and Anne died
1729.
Children
of Pierre and Anne Boisseau are:
1. Antione Boisseau born 1680 in Montreal, Canada; Died 1754 Montreal, Canada
2. Vincent Boisseau born in Montreal date unknown
Antoine
Boisseau was born in 1680 in Montreal, Canada.
He married Angelique Bastien, a Native American woman, in Kaskaskia,
Illinois. They had two children. Antoine died in 1754 at the family homestead
in Montreal, Canada.
*Notes: Antoine Boisseau was the senior etait
l’heritier, but he left the family before he was 20 years old either to be a
soldier or a fur trader. He was gone
from Quebec for more than 30 years. He
can be found along the Mississippi River in Kaskaskia, Illinois where he
married a native and had two children.
Antoine returned to Quebec with his son around 1734 and took possession
of his family homestead, which had been under the care of his brother Vincent.
Children of Antoine and Angelique
Boisseau were:
1. Antoine Boisseau born 1716, Kaskaskia, Illinois;
Died1754 Vercheres, Canada
2. Therese
Boisseau born in Kaskaskia, Illinois; Died in the Mississippi Region date
unknown; married Francois Belot 16 Feb 1727 at Fort Chartres, Illinois.
Antoine
Boisseau was born in 1716 in Kaskaskia, Illinois. On 13 Feb 1741 he married Marie-Judith
Gregoire-Vanentin, daughter of Julien & Francoise Deserre, in Vercheres,
Canada. They had three known children.
Notes:
In the spring of 1754 it is believed disease hit the family as Antoine senior,
Antoine Jr. and two of Antoine Jr’s daughter all die.
Children of Antoine and Marie-Judith
Boisseau were:
1. Antoine Boisseau born 1741 in Vercheres, Canada;
Died 1782 Vercheres, Canada
2. Daughter born
date unknown; Died spring 1754, Vercheres, Canada
3. Daughter born
date unknown; Died spring 1754, Vercheres, Canada
Antoine
Boisseau was born in 1741 in Vercheres, Canada.
On 25 Jan 1762 he married Marie-Anne Guertin, daughter of
Francois-Xavier & Elisabeth Charron.
They had a total of 15 children; two sons and four daughters got
married.
Children of Antoine and Marie-Anne
Boisseau were: (note: only
confirmed children listed)
1. Vincent
Boisseau born 1768 Vercheres, Canada; Died date unknown
2. Louis-Francois Boisseau born 1771
Vercheres, Canada; Died date unknown, Chambly, Quebec, Canada
Louis
Boisseau was born in 1771 in Vercheres, Canada.
On 28 Oct 1793 he married Elisabeth Werry-Allard in St. Antoine sur le
Richelieu. It is unknown when he and
Elisabeth died.
Child of Louis and Elisabeth Boisseau
was:
1. Josette Boisseau born 1798 Chambly, Quebec,
Canada; Died 1870 St. Anne, Illinois
Josette
Boisseau was born in 1798 in Chambly, Quebec, Canada. On 25 Nov 1816 she married Francois Chartier,
son of Antoine Chartier and Marie-Angelique Veronneau. They had 14 children. Josette died in 1870 in St. Anne, Illinois.
Children of Josette and Francois
Chartier were:
1.
Marie-Josette
Chartier born 24 Sep 1818 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
2.
Francois
Chartier born 20 Feb 1820 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
3.
Louis
Chartier baptized 18 Jun 1822 (age 3 months) Chambly, Quebec, Canada; Died 2
Jun 1880 Kankakee, Illinois
4.
Virginie
Chartier born 4 Feb 1824 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
5.
Leocadie
Chartier born 14 Oct 1825 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
6.
Etienne-Timothee
Chartier born 22 Jun 1827 Chambly, Quebec Canada
7.
Rosalie
Chartier born 4 Feb 1830 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
8.
Augustin-Timothee
Chartier born 19 May 1832 Chambly, Quebec
9.
Joseph-Leandre
Chartier born 26 Sep 1833 Chambly, Quebec, Canada; Died 11 Jun 1883
Miltonville, Kansas
10.
Jean
Baptiste-Isreal Chartier born 5 Sep 1835 Chambly, Quebec, Canada; Died 4 Nov
1866 Kankakee, Illinois
11.
Genevieve-Philomene
Chartier
born 3 Oct 1837 Chambly, Quebec, Canada; Died 9 Jun 1880 Kankakee, Illinois
12.
Moise
Chartier born 15 Apr 1840 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
13.
Marie-Anne-Ermelinde
Chartier born 1 May 1842 Chambly, Quebec, Canada
14.
Raphael
Theode Chartier b 17 Jan 1845 L”Acadie, Quebec, Canada; Died 13 Dec 1903 New
York, New York
Genevieve-Philomene
Chartier was born 3 Oct 1937 in Chambly, Quebec, Canada. She married Jean-Baptiste Cyrier 2 Feb 1857
in Bourbonnais, Illinois. He was born 1838 in Comte St.Jean, Quebec,
Canada, son of Noel Cyrier and
Josette-Louise Toupin. Jean-Baptiste (AKA John B.) died 1 Jun 1876 at age 38
years in Otto Township, Illinois. He is buried in St. Jacque de laBend near
Irwin, Illinois. Genevieve-Philomene (AKA Fanny) died 9 Jun 1880 at age 42 years in Kankakee,
Illinois. She is buried in Kankakee.
Children of Jean-Baptiste and
Genevieve-Philomene are:
1.
Philomene
Matilde Cyrier “Matilda” born 18 Nov 1857 Bourbonnais, Illinois; died 1867 age
10 years
2.
Jean-Baptiste
Alfred Cyrier “Freddie” born 19 May 1859 Bourbonnais, Illinois; died 1871 age
12 years in Otto Township, Illinois
3.
Josephine
Louise Victorie Cyrier “Victoria” born 15 Apr 1860 Bourbonnais, Illinois; Died
1868 age 8 years Bourbonnais, Illinois
4.
Marie
Adele Victorie Cyrier “Delphas” born 14 Nov 1861 Manteno, Illinois; Died in
infancy
5.
Louis
George Cyrier “George” born 22 Dec 1862 Manteno, Illinois; Died after 1906
Indiana
6.
Henri Amedee
Cyrier “Medie”
born 30 Aug 1964 Manteno, Illinois; Died 4 Sep 1930 Lonoke, Arkansas
7.
Marie
Cerio Georgeanna Cyrier “Georgia” born 21 Oct 1866 Manteno, Illinois; Died 1905
Otto Township, Illinois
8.
Joseph
Lucien Cyrier “L.J.” or “Lucien” born 24 Aug 1868 Manteno, Illinois; Died 8 Sep
1913 Ottawa, Illinois
9.
Jean-Baptiste
Joseph Edward Cyrier “Edward” born 9 May 1874 Otto, Illinois; Died after 1906
Manteno, Illinois
10.
Matilda
Victoria Cyrier “Victoria” born 23 Nov 1876 Otto Township, Illinois; Died after
1906 Los Angelas, California
11.
UnNamed
Infant birt unknown
Henri
Amedee Cyrier was born 30 Aug 1864 in Manteno, Illinois. He Married Marguerite Delia Savoie 11 Sep
1888 in Bourbonnais, Illinois. She was
born 12 May 1868 in Bourbonnais, Illinois, daughter of Maxime Savoie and Agathe
LaFontaine. Henri died 4 Sep 1930 at age
66 years in Lonoke, Arkansas. Marguerite
Delia died 8 Apr 1936 at age----in Lonoke, Arkansas. Henri and Delia are buried together at
Carlisle Cemetary in Lonoke Arkansas.
Children of Henri and Delia are:
1.
Harriet Agatha
Cyrier “Hattie”
born 12 Sep 1889 Deselm, Illinois; died 19 December 1944 Kankakee, Illinois
2.
Irene
Cyrier born Jul 1893 Illinois; Died ----
3.
George
Dewey Cyrier “Dewey” born 30 May 1898 Illinois; Died 15 Oct 1967 Lonoke,
Arkansas
4.
Annette
Cyrier born 1901 Illinois; Died ----
5.
Doreen
Cyrier born 1905 Illinois; Died -----
Harriet
Agatha Cyrier was born 12 September 1889 in Deselm, Illinois. She married Donald Hubbard Bestor 12 Sep 1908
in Kankakee, Illinois at St.Roses Church. He was born 23 Sep 1889 in Lanford,
South Dakota, son of Robert Bestor and Carrie Hubbard. Their marriage ended in divorce 20 Feb 1925. Hattie married Joseph C. Catton 1928 in
Topeka, Kansas. Hattie died 19 Dec 1944 at age 54 in Kankakee, Illinois. Don Bestor died Jan 1970 in Wisconsin. Death of Joe Catton is unknown.
Children of Hattie and Don Are:
1.
Bartley Roger
Bestor “Bart”
born 15 Aug 1921 Kankakee, Illinois; Died 26 May 2007 Sun City, Arizona
I am the Granddaughter of Bartley Bestor.
Copyright (c) 2013, Hillary Marvier
Copyright (c) 2013, Hillary Marvier
Monday, July 29, 2013
Monday Memories -- My Mom
Monday Memories is a weekly blogging feature here at Telling Their Tales. The purpose of Monday Memories is to help genealogy bloggers to write down their personal history. Each week a different topic will be offered to prompt your writing.
Next weeks topic: Memories of your Dad
When I was
growing up I believed my mom was a super hero!
She was raising five children solely on her own, and was always there
for each one of us. I have so many
memories of my mom that I could discuss, but what I want to focus on are the
small things I remember…..like her hands are always so soft!!
I always
loved holding my mom’s hand and feeling her soft skin next to mine. My husband even once commented to me about
how soft my mom’s hands were.
My mom loves
to read! When I was growing up, she
always had a book with her no matter where we were. In those days she loved true crime
novels. Nowadays she can still be seen
with a book in hand no matter where she goes, but now she loves historical
fiction.
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| Me & my Mom on my wedding day 6 September 1997 |
My favorite
meal my mom made when I was growing up was lasagna. After my twins were born, she asked me what
she could do to help me out and I immediately responded with “Make me your
lasagna!”
For the most
part, I remember my mom being a pretty laid back parent, but when she got
angry, she really got angry!! When she
would point her finger at you, you KNEW you were in BIG trouble! Her punishments ranged from a smack to being
“grounded” to having a horrible cleaning chore like scrubbing toilets!
My mom was always
someone I could talk to. No subject was
ever off limits and I never had to worry about her getting upset with me if I
talked about sex or drugs or any other “adult” topic.
Today my Mom
is my best friend! We enjoy going to
lunch together and having girls days out shopping.
Do you have a memory of your Mom you'd like to share? Link up here if you do!
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Wednesdays Child -- Hilda A. E. & Edith L.V. Stanley
Hilda A. E. Stanley
1892-1895
Edith L.V. Stanley
1907-1909
These are my 2xGreat-Aunts. They were the daughters of Arthur Richard & B.Christina Stanley.
While I don't know how Hilda died, this is one of my many research "To-Do's" for this family
, I do know Edith died from a ruptured appendicitis at the age of 2.
I'm always surprised to learn how often history repeats it's self. This is one of those cases.
My aunt, at the age of 2, also nearly died from a ruptured appendicitis in 1966.
Thanks to advances in the medical field, my aunt survived.
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Civil War 150th Anniversary
As I've done my research over the years I've have found a few ancestors who may have fought in the Civil War, but I want to get more confirmation on them. One ancestor however, I do know for certain fought in the Civil War.
He was my 3rd Great Grandfather, Alva Beach Hubbard.
Alva Beach Hubbard was born 8 Nov 1834 in Windham, New York. At the age of 27 he joined the Civil War.
Below is a transcription of his obiturary as it appeared in the Evansville Review in Evansville, Wisconsin 5 Apr 1923.
OBITUARY
ALVA BEACH HUBBARD
Alva Beach Hubbard was born Nov. 8th, 1834, in Windham, New York. At the age of two, removed with his parents to Mount Morris, where he grew to sturdy young manhood, working on the farm summers and attending district school winters. When 18 years of age he enjoyed two terms of high school in the village, acquiring that thirst for reading which remained with him throughout his life. When 19 years of age, or in October, 1853, he came, with his parents, to Wisconsin, stopping in Spring Prairie. The next year, November, 1854, he removed to Lacon, Ill, and followed railroading until July, 1857, when he came back to Spring Prairie, helping with the harvest, going back to Windham. N.Y., the last of October, where on the 7th of the month he married Miss Clara Force, returning with his bride to Spring Prairie and engaging in farming until the call of his country caused him to enlist in Co., I, 28th Wisconsin Infantry. He served with honors for three years, until the close of the war, and was mustered out in October, 1865, returning gladly to the farm. In the spring of 1871 he went to Minnesota and took up a homestead in Brown County. Helped organize the township, the school district and built the first schoolhouse. Was superintendant of the first Sunday school and a charter member of the COngressional church he helped organize, serving in some official capacity until he sold out, coming to Evansville. A year later, in July, 1897, he moved to Mentour, Iowa, and bought a home, but returned shortly to Wisconsin, where he resided continuously until his death, which took place April 2nd., 1923, at the home of his daughter, Mrs. Carrie E. Bestor. His wife having preceded him in death four years, there remains to mourn his passing, two daughters: Mrs. Carrie E. Bestor of Evansville and Mrs. Helen Z. May of Bloomington, Ill. and one son, Clifford W. Hubbard of Omaha, Neb. THere are also ten grand-children. For the last years of his life Mr. Hubbard was afflicted with deafness, hearing only by the aid of a speaking trumpet, and with near blindness; still he delighted to talk with friends, especially of the stirring times immediatley precededing and during the Civil War. Always intensley patriotic, he could no brook slighting remarks regarding the flag of his country. Religion and patriotism were close akin to him. Naturally he was a member of the local Congregational Church, coming by letter. Always he carried his church letter with him. The funeral took place from the home of Mrs. Carrie E. Bestor on Third Street, Wednesday morning at 10 o'clock, Rev. O.W.Smith of the Congregational church officiating. Beside the many relatives and friends gathered to pay him honor was the little group of Civil War veterans, a pitiful remnant of the Grand Army of the Republic, who, with representatives of the American Iegion Post, laid the body to rest in the cemetery. Hail and farewell, comrade and brother.
My research is currently focused on finding out more about Alva's war experience and finding out more about the Co. 1 28th Wisconsin Infantry. I'm very proud to have him in my family tree.
My connection to Alva Beach Hubbard:
Alva Hubbard>>Carrie E. (Hubbard) Bestor>>Donald H. Bestor>>Bartley R. Bestor>>Sherri C. Bestor>>Me
The other Civil War veterans in my tree are not direct ancestors, but are uncles and cousins in my tree.
He was my 3rd Great Grandfather, Alva Beach Hubbard.
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| Alva Beach Hubbard circa 1918 |
Alva Beach Hubbard was born 8 Nov 1834 in Windham, New York. At the age of 27 he joined the Civil War.
Below is a transcription of his obiturary as it appeared in the Evansville Review in Evansville, Wisconsin 5 Apr 1923.
OBITUARY
ALVA BEACH HUBBARD
Alva Beach Hubbard was born Nov. 8th, 1834, in Windham, New York. At the age of two, removed with his parents to Mount Morris, where he grew to sturdy young manhood, working on the farm summers and attending district school winters. When 18 years of age he enjoyed two terms of high school in the village, acquiring that thirst for reading which remained with him throughout his life. When 19 years of age, or in October, 1853, he came, with his parents, to Wisconsin, stopping in Spring Prairie. The next year, November, 1854, he removed to Lacon, Ill, and followed railroading until July, 1857, when he came back to Spring Prairie, helping with the harvest, going back to Windham. N.Y., the last of October, where on the 7th of the month he married Miss Clara Force, returning with his bride to Spring Prairie and engaging in farming until the call of his country caused him to enlist in Co., I, 28th Wisconsin Infantry. He served with honors for three years, until the close of the war, and was mustered out in October, 1865, returning gladly to the farm. In the spring of 1871 he went to Minnesota and took up a homestead in Brown County. Helped organize the township, the school district and built the first schoolhouse. Was superintendant of the first Sunday school and a charter member of the COngressional church he helped organize, serving in some official capacity until he sold out, coming to Evansville. A year later, in July, 1897, he moved to Mentour, Iowa, and bought a home, but returned shortly to Wisconsin, where he resided continuously until his death, which took place April 2nd., 1923, at the home of his daughter, Mrs. Carrie E. Bestor. His wife having preceded him in death four years, there remains to mourn his passing, two daughters: Mrs. Carrie E. Bestor of Evansville and Mrs. Helen Z. May of Bloomington, Ill. and one son, Clifford W. Hubbard of Omaha, Neb. THere are also ten grand-children. For the last years of his life Mr. Hubbard was afflicted with deafness, hearing only by the aid of a speaking trumpet, and with near blindness; still he delighted to talk with friends, especially of the stirring times immediatley precededing and during the Civil War. Always intensley patriotic, he could no brook slighting remarks regarding the flag of his country. Religion and patriotism were close akin to him. Naturally he was a member of the local Congregational Church, coming by letter. Always he carried his church letter with him. The funeral took place from the home of Mrs. Carrie E. Bestor on Third Street, Wednesday morning at 10 o'clock, Rev. O.W.Smith of the Congregational church officiating. Beside the many relatives and friends gathered to pay him honor was the little group of Civil War veterans, a pitiful remnant of the Grand Army of the Republic, who, with representatives of the American Iegion Post, laid the body to rest in the cemetery. Hail and farewell, comrade and brother.
My research is currently focused on finding out more about Alva's war experience and finding out more about the Co. 1 28th Wisconsin Infantry. I'm very proud to have him in my family tree.
My connection to Alva Beach Hubbard:
Alva Hubbard>>Carrie E. (Hubbard) Bestor>>Donald H. Bestor>>Bartley R. Bestor>>Sherri C. Bestor>>Me
The other Civil War veterans in my tree are not direct ancestors, but are uncles and cousins in my tree.
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Meet The Parents -- Mom & Dad, their story continues.....
As mentioned in this post and this one, my parents met in detention at Novato High School in Novato, California in 1960.
By the fall of 1961 they had parted ways. My mom was in her Junior year and my Dad was in his Senior year.
In December 1961 my Mom became a sister for the 4th time when her mother gave birth to another baby sister. At that time my Mom was keeping a very large secret.
At the age of 16, she was nearly five months pregnant.
My Mom recalls this time with mixed emotions. She had not told a soul of her condition, yet she was excited and terrified all at once. She knew without a doubt she wanted the baby, but had no idea of how everyone in her life would react. So she kept her secret until she was 7.5 months along, and it was no longer possible to hide her expanding waistline.
Her mother asked her directly "Are you pregnant?"
"Yes." was my Mom's simple reply.
That one word turned her world upside down from the moment it escaped her lips.
My Grandmother's immediate reaction was violent. She tore a necklace off my Mom's neck, which had been given to my Mom by her own grandmother, stating "You don't deserve this!"
That night my Mom made the phone call to my Dad. And in complete contrast to her parent's reaction, my Dad responded with an excited "Oh Good, Now we'll get married." Never once did he react negatively, even with all that happened in the ensuing weeks.
My Grandparents were furious!! They told my Mom she was NOT under any circumstances going to keep the baby..."What would the neighbors think!!" was all my Grandmother cared about at the time. They arranged for a women from a local home for pregnant teens, to come and speak with my Mom about how things would go and the adoption process.
My Mom recalls her own behavior during this meeting as belligerent, disrespectful and down-right rude!! She recalls having such a desperate feeling and knew only one thing....No one was taking her baby!
After the disastrous meeting, my Grandparents had a private meeting with my Dad's mother. Although my parents where not allowed to be present at this meeting, my mom learned later what was discussed. My Dad's mother told my Mom's parents that if they did not want her to have this baby, that was their decision, but the baby would not go up for adoption! My Dad would take the child and it would be raised by his family.
Two weeks later, my Grandfather drove my Mom to a small church in Napa, California where she was met by my Dad, his Mother and his two brothers. Before my Mom stepped out of the car, my Grandfather said "I hope your happy!" After she got out of the car, my Grandfather drove away.
My Mom walked into the small church on 12 March 1962 and became Mrs. Theodore Green. She was 16 years old.
Following their wedding, my parents returned to Novato and lived with my Dad's mother. My mom dropped out of school and on 31 May 1962 my sister Caren was born.
Between 1962 and 1966 my parents had 3 more children; two more girls and one boy.
While their marriage was not a fairytale by any stretch of the imagination, they were happy.
Sadly, my Dad's mother died the summer of 1965, and with her death came a very deep depression my Dad could not recover from.
He began drinking regularly and heavily, although by all accounts he NEVER drank at home.
In the fall of 1972 I was born.
Just 9 months later, and after nearly 12 years of marriage, on 8 Sept 1973 my father died in a head-on collision after a night of drinking. His blood alcohol level was 2.8. He was killed instantly. By the grace of God, no one else was seriously injured.
While the story of my parents has a sad ending, they did love one another, and even today and after a second marriage, my Mom says my Dad was her soul mate.
I have to say that being the daughter of a "Teen Mom" taught me a lot. I can vividly recall being 16 and thinking My God, I could never be a mom right know...How did she do it!!
While statistics show children born to teen parents are more likely to become teen parents themselves, this did not happen with my family.
By the fall of 1961 they had parted ways. My mom was in her Junior year and my Dad was in his Senior year.
In December 1961 my Mom became a sister for the 4th time when her mother gave birth to another baby sister. At that time my Mom was keeping a very large secret.
At the age of 16, she was nearly five months pregnant.
My Mom recalls this time with mixed emotions. She had not told a soul of her condition, yet she was excited and terrified all at once. She knew without a doubt she wanted the baby, but had no idea of how everyone in her life would react. So she kept her secret until she was 7.5 months along, and it was no longer possible to hide her expanding waistline.
Her mother asked her directly "Are you pregnant?"
"Yes." was my Mom's simple reply.
That one word turned her world upside down from the moment it escaped her lips.
My Grandmother's immediate reaction was violent. She tore a necklace off my Mom's neck, which had been given to my Mom by her own grandmother, stating "You don't deserve this!"
That night my Mom made the phone call to my Dad. And in complete contrast to her parent's reaction, my Dad responded with an excited "Oh Good, Now we'll get married." Never once did he react negatively, even with all that happened in the ensuing weeks.
My Grandparents were furious!! They told my Mom she was NOT under any circumstances going to keep the baby..."What would the neighbors think!!" was all my Grandmother cared about at the time. They arranged for a women from a local home for pregnant teens, to come and speak with my Mom about how things would go and the adoption process.
My Mom recalls her own behavior during this meeting as belligerent, disrespectful and down-right rude!! She recalls having such a desperate feeling and knew only one thing....No one was taking her baby!
After the disastrous meeting, my Grandparents had a private meeting with my Dad's mother. Although my parents where not allowed to be present at this meeting, my mom learned later what was discussed. My Dad's mother told my Mom's parents that if they did not want her to have this baby, that was their decision, but the baby would not go up for adoption! My Dad would take the child and it would be raised by his family.
Two weeks later, my Grandfather drove my Mom to a small church in Napa, California where she was met by my Dad, his Mother and his two brothers. Before my Mom stepped out of the car, my Grandfather said "I hope your happy!" After she got out of the car, my Grandfather drove away.
My Mom walked into the small church on 12 March 1962 and became Mrs. Theodore Green. She was 16 years old.
Following their wedding, my parents returned to Novato and lived with my Dad's mother. My mom dropped out of school and on 31 May 1962 my sister Caren was born.
Between 1962 and 1966 my parents had 3 more children; two more girls and one boy.
1967
While their marriage was not a fairytale by any stretch of the imagination, they were happy.
Sadly, my Dad's mother died the summer of 1965, and with her death came a very deep depression my Dad could not recover from.
1968
He began drinking regularly and heavily, although by all accounts he NEVER drank at home.
In the fall of 1972 I was born.
The only photo of my Dad and I in the same space and time.
I am being held by a cousin, and the little boy is my brother.
Just 9 months later, and after nearly 12 years of marriage, on 8 Sept 1973 my father died in a head-on collision after a night of drinking. His blood alcohol level was 2.8. He was killed instantly. By the grace of God, no one else was seriously injured.
While the story of my parents has a sad ending, they did love one another, and even today and after a second marriage, my Mom says my Dad was her soul mate.
I have to say that being the daughter of a "Teen Mom" taught me a lot. I can vividly recall being 16 and thinking My God, I could never be a mom right know...How did she do it!!
While statistics show children born to teen parents are more likely to become teen parents themselves, this did not happen with my family.
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Those Places Thursday -- Kankakee Illinois
I have not had the chance to visit Kankakee, but it is on my "To Do List"
If you have roots in Kankakee be sure to visit The Kankakee Valley Genealogical Society. The volunteer researches there have been of tremendous assistance to me over the years.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Meet The Parents -- Mom
My family history begins with my parents. Without them, I wouldn't be here......go figure!
This is my mom.....Isn't she cute!
She was the first born child to my grandparents (I'll introduce them another day) and she was born on Sunday, 14 October 1945 in Waltham, Massachusetts.........9 months and 10 days after her parents were married.
As my Grandmother tells it, my mom was born after a lengthy labor, in which my grandmother was ultimatley sedated. My Grandmother saw her new baby for the first time the next day and she recalls her first thoughts being........Who is this black haired child? (My grandmother is a redhead) She couldn't imagine this dark-haired dark-eyed baby could possibly be hers! (Never mind my Grandfather is dark in coloring, and wasn't present for the birth because he was busy in the Pacific War Theater during a little thing now known as WWII)
My mom spent the first six months of her life living in Needham, Massachusetts with her mother and her grandparents. My grandmother recalls laying my mom out in the sun for hours at time to "get some fresh are." Nowadays, babies are smoothered in sunscreen and hidden in the shade.
When her father was discharged in 1946, he moved his little family to Houston, Texas while he attended college. This is where they would remain for the next four years. During this time my mom had two favorite activities. Disappearing off to uncharted areas (aka climbing the fence in the back yard and visiting neighbors....some blocks away).
And playing in a washtub.
When my mom was 18 months old, her world changed...............she became a big sister for the first time. Now, if you ask my mom, this was the most tramating event in her little life. Due to the fact that my grandparents where in Houston, Texas, and all other relatives were in Massachusettes, my mom was sent to a Nunnery while my grandmother birthed her second child. My mom would remain in the Nunnery for two weeks. During her stay, my mom was not allowed a bottle, which at 18 months of age she was quite attached too. In my moms opinion, this act has affected her entire life. I suppose she's the only one who can decide that.
New Big Sister, Baby Sister and Daddy
After the birth of her sister, and upon my Grandfather's graduation, the family of 4 headed back to Massachusetts, settling in Nadick. During the years they lived in Nadick, my mom became a sister two more times. In 1955 they family of 6 moved to Middletown, New Jersey where they would remain until 1960.
Christmas 1955
During her childhood years my mom spent all her summers at The Cape (Cape Cod) at her grandparents beach house. One of her most vivid memories is being on at The Cape with her Grandmother during hurrican Hazel, while the rest of her family was back in Nadick. She recalls the tremendous combined strength it took for her and her grandmother to close the french doors on the front porch. She and her grandmother had to wait out a portion of the storm for her grandfather to arrive to bring them back to Nadick. She can still remember the burning sting of the sand as she and her grandmother ran to the car once her grandfather had arrived.
The Cape
After a crazy drive through flooded cranberry bogs, they arrived in Needham and she had to spend the night at her grandparents. She laid awake all night listening to the mantle clock chime each hour, as she scratched and scratched a horrible case of poison oak.
Sixth Grade
In the Summer of 1960, the family of 6 loaded up in a 1954 two-tone station wagon, and headed to their new home on the West Coast . They took the entire summer to drive across the country stoppping in various locations along the way to visit family.
The Station Wagon
Their route took them from New Jersey, to To New York, to Connecticut, across to Illinois. Then meandering up and down the map moving forever onward to California.
In the Fall of 1960 the family of 6 had settled in Novato, California and my Mom had entered high school as a sophmore. In September of that year she met my father.........during detention for skipping school! At this point, I suppose I should confess...my mom was not the most obedient teenager, and really gave her parents a horrendous time.
Photo taken just after they arrived in California in 1960
In the Spring of 1961 this disobedient teenager told her parents she was going to a school dance. She went to the dance....briefly.......then left with three other disobedient teenagers (my dad was not among them) and headed out on a joy ride.
While taking a turn from a narrow road onto a dirt road, the driver lost control and the car spun-out. My mom, who had been riding in the backseat, sitting with her back against the door, was thrown from the car when the door unexpectadly opened and landed on her head suffering severe head trama.
For the next month, my mom was in the intesive care unit of a large San Francisco hospital. For the first two weeks she was in a coma and the doctors couldn't say for certain if she would live or die. My Grandparents recall this time in 1961 with great reluctance and anger saying it was the worst time of their lives. My Grandfather had called in a catholic priest and my mom was given her last rites. That is how severly injured she was!
My mom has only scattered memories of her time in the hospital. She recalls eating pudding, and she recalls my dad being one of her only non-family visitors.
By the fall of 1961 she had recovered from her accident and was in her Junior year of high school. The family of 6 was soon to be a family of 7............and unbenounced to my Grandparents, they would soon be grandparents for the very first time...................
Fall 1960 age 14
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